Can you believe it? What a huge step! She hasn't 'allowed' anyone but me to do it since she got home (2 months). We kind of came to a decision this weekend...enough is enough. Eva's rule over the MacMonagle house is over.
As Nichole says, some of these you have to use your mommy ears for :-) I've been trying to keep a list for a few days now so I remember.
NO NO NO!!! (LOL big surprise right?) jeans (his first real word) Please Thank you juice eggs eat I love you/I love you too hot peepee/poopoo hi bye bye up please balloons white blue red green pink purple (he was so pleased with himself when that one came out!) ball I am cute puppy almost all of his ABCs
And tonight when I was putting him to bed I said, "I love you Michael." and he said, "I love you too." and I said, "I love you mama." and he said for the first time, "I love you mama!" Oh--my heart! Much clapping and lots of praise!
For the 2 days before my Mom and Dad arrived it snowed...20" worth. As you know my parents LOVE snow (not) and were so bummed when they heard what was going on. This pic was taken in my backyard just before it stopped on Thursday. My parents arrived on Friday morning.
This pic was taken on Saturday :-) The sun is so intense here it just melts right off.
We were out for a walk and Eva saw this woman jog by. She turned around and started jogging after her lol
No, I wasn't creative in costumes this year...I'm just trying to survive with two kids! Maybe next year! Eva had a choice between a fairy princess with a beautiful handmade costume (another Hope mom, Rhonda, made it for us!) or be a puppy dog with Michael. She chose the dog--go figure. It was just as well since it was cold out. They were both snuggly warm as dogs. Eva will be using her fairy outfit as dress up!
This was the second night Mom and Dad were here. Dad and Brad stayed home to give out candy and Mom, the kids, and I set out at 6:00 with some neighbors and their kids. Neither of mine had done this before but with Grandma coaching, "1, 2, 3, Trick or Treat!" they figured it out quickly.
Michael sounded something like, "Tick or eat!" and Eva with her Ethiopian accent said, "Turkey Treat!" LOL
Things are obviously a bit better :-) She's really starting to bond with Brad, yay! Today she went to him for a hug and actually allowed him to carry her around (a big scary thing for her--I suppose because that's what happened when he took her from the orphanage)
Sleeping issues are worked out. She goes to sleep in her room and then often comes into our room (usually crying softly) in the middle of the night, where I cuddle her and then eventually move her into the toddler bed in our room. She sleeps through the rest of the night.
Last night she ate the shepherd's pie that I made and loved it and even said, "Shepherd's pie!" tonight at dinner--I guess hoping we were going to have it again. She's backing off the bread a little and will allow a different afternoon snack!
Her English is coming along and because of it Michael has finally decided to start talking. He can say a lot of his alphabet now--whooohoo! :-) And is trying a few words like beep beep, choo choo, Onya, Mom, Whoohoo. YES it's finally happening--we are super excited!
They are still getting along better than expected but of course have the typical brother/sister buggin' things. It's funny to watch who starts it and who finishes it. Reminds me of me and my brother.
She is still glued to me nearly every waking second. On the rare occasion that I get to leave without her she cries for a minute and then is okay. Thank God. That was upsetting to hear her screaming and crying, "MOMMY!!!" and then several things in Amharic that just sounds like, "Mommy, don't go!" Brad's amazing with her thank goodness.
My mom and dad come in Friday morning so I probably won't be posting for a bit. It's snowing and we're supposed to be getting anywhere from 8"-24"--snowing until Thursday afternoon. OMG. My parents hate snow. H A T E it. At least it will warm up on Friday and through the weekend--into the 60s! Maybe it will melt fast... Last year EVERY TIME my mom would come visit it would snow. And here we go again--sorry mom... On the other hand--we're excited and the kids love it!
When you give your 4 year old 4 crayons to color with and the crayons come back to you 30 minutes later with no tips and your 4 year old has a bit of green wax stuck to her bottom lip...what would you think?
Michael tried to kill himself this afternoon just after lunch. First let me say: he's fine. I heard Brad say something, something that I can't even remember, all I can hear is the tone and it scared the bejesus out of me. I run into the other room and Michael is choking but whatever it is is coming out along with all of his lunch. When I first saw him he was just starting to throw up, a split second later a pink lid to one of Eva Hayat's little toys came out along with the rest of his lunch. The lid wouldn't have fit down his throat but did fit in his mouth and he must have gagged himself with it. OMG. I've gone around the house picking up everything he can fit in his mouth. So so scary.
Mom and I were just getting off the phone when Eva Hayat asked to talk to "Gamma." I told her she was, "all gone for now." And then explained to her that Grandma and Grandpa were coming to visit our house in 3 weeks! She looked at the phone and said, "Gamma, come on!!!" Then she looked up at the ceiling (thinking) and looked at me and said, "Happy?" and then, "Happy!" with a smile. We've been working on what happy, angry, sad looks like so she can put a name to her feelings. She's latched onto happy really well. So sweet!
After struggling (because of the wild Raptorkids) through a conversation with my brother this evening, Michael said, "Am I still getting the kids if something happens to you guys?" I said, "Yes, of course." And my bratty brother replies, "Ok, well then don't die." LOL
Donations to Hope Adoption Agency's Ethiopian Orphanage
Faith Children's Home P.O. Box 32801 St. Louis, MO. 63132 314-692-2631 Shimeliss Demissie
Adoption Timeline
8/6/09 Travel arrangements for Brad & Josh
7/28/09 Eva Hayat passed court-she's officially a MacMonagle!
7/27/09 Eva Hayat's 3rd court date!
6/5/09 Eva Hayat didn't pass because she is considered abandoned and they aren't hearing those cases right now. We were told she was relinquished so this is news to us.
5/15/09 Eva Hayat has a new court date of June 5th! YAY!
4/6/09 Eva's court case wasn't heard, we're now an 'open' case just waiting for her to pass.
2/22/09 Eva Hayat has a court date of April 6th!
12/19/08 Eva Hayat was filed for court
8/13/08 Accepted referral of Hayat!
8/12/08 Referral of Hayat
2/17/08 Found out our home study agency is being investigated for fraud!
2/12/08 Home again-YAY!
2/5/08 Gotcha Day
2/3-2/9 ET trip!
1/17/08 We've made our travel plans!
1/3/08 Hope's bio mom comes back to get her. We pray that they have a happy life.
12/27/07 We're waiting for news of Michael's embassy date and then we will make our travel plans!
12/27/07 Hope's mother doesn't show up for court and they can't find her. Her case is on hold. We don't know what's going to happen from here.
12/20/07 Michael makes it through court-we are officially his parents!
11/20/07 Happy Thanksgiving to us! We have court dates! Dec 19 for Michael and Dec 27 for Hope
11/19/07 We receive our 171
11/13/07 We decide to move forward with the referral for Sumuye. Madeline names her for us: "Hope"
11/12/07 Our girl twin, Madeline, passed away :-( She'll be forever in our hearts
10/26/07 Dossier arrives in ET
10/20/07 Dossier is sent to Assistant Stork
10/2/07 Home study update visit
10/2/07 We received our formal referral and photos of the twins and accept our referral
9/23/07 Shimeliss emailed to say they are doing well
9/21/07 Shimeliss emailed to tell us they are adorable and he has photos to show us when he gets back
9/16/07 First news of our boy/girl twins Micahel and Madeline from Shimeliss in Ethiopia
9/2/07 Both Hope and our homestudy agency will allow us to stay in line in China! YAY!
9/2/07 Found our local home study agency
8/2/07 Began collection documents for dossier
8/2/07 Sent formal application to Hope Adoption
7/24/07 Spoke to Shimeliss with Hope Adoption and received the agency's package
7/22/07 First heard about Hope Adoption Agency in MO
7/10/07 Brad and I started talking about Ethiopia
2/28/07 LID (Log In Date) in China
1/25/07 Dossier sent to China
12/10/06 Rumor has China wait times changing from 18 mo to 2-3 years
11/29/06 Decided to say yes, we were open to the possibility of twins from China
9/20/06 Started gathering documents for China dossier
9/18/06 Submitted application to AAC Adoptions for China